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2017,愿一切苦尽甘来

其实越大,踏入这浑浊的社会,我才发现很多人,也许是minority也有可能是majority,或早已成为一种公开秘密的norm --- complicated relationship
有几复杂?
比如:

  1. 小三、小王 -总之就是你只能在无名无分,过着不为人知的恋爱
  2. 不可能一起的,companion,首要原则是坦白还有坦诚。据了解这类型比较受欢迎,因为没有人捆绑,反而更discipline。。就是,你们碍于任何的原因不能在一起也不会有结局。当然并没有阻止对方seeing others。只要一方有了认定的伴,这个companionship结束。严格上,其实蛮有道义的说。 
  3. 暧昧的不清不楚,乱枪打鸟,就是不肯认定,三不五时伴侣换的连朋友都懒得关心细节。
  4. 两个人是否一起,只有自己心里有数。不必跟任何人交代,但是少了公开的身份,缺的也是一份交代。 
是社会生病了还是都市人的感情太脆弱得无法负起责任?又或者生活压力太大至于感情变成廉价吗? 

我们习惯伤害与被伤害,对于那看似简单1对1 的爱情模式变得像玻璃,一触碰就碎。 我一直坚信只要还是相信爱情,就不会害怕任何一次的伤心难过。重点是,ready好被伤害么?每段感情必定要经过那个苦尽甘来的阶段。只是该如何adjust自己呢?

但愿有天我能遇见自己很爱很爱的男生,经历一场苦尽甘来的爱情。 一场也是唯一与最后的恋爱经验。 


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