watched a story bout the India girl in marriage.
they are young and when they were small,their parent already chose for them husband.in their concept,a girl who need get married and give birth baby only consider as a perfect girl.love in free can be totally forfeited in their tradition.they are married according to what parent [think] good for them.
always there is Grey area in love just like in business ethic,we cant manage get the perfect match which fulfill every parties demand.if the girl is so unlucky,she might meet with a bad husband who are greedy asking money from the wife,if she couldn't pay the money,they will just burn the wife!
the more worst,if the husband die,the children can get their mum away from the house,because the mother would consider as ominous object!even the society will look down to these all widows.is that a fair trade?is that what a female should get?what is the final destination for a female?marriage??
from another point of view,giving the chance to choose own lover to be the whole life partner,are u sure will be a very good situation compare to the India?i don think so,because we all have options and qualifications!under terms and condition,we are allowed to make choice so do others.
as time goes by,marriage just a legal status provide to the baby,if planning to give birth,should married;but if not,married or not doesn't a matter,it just a cert which the parties have been addressed by the law in any way.
p/s:babyboy will be worry right when read me this blog,but babyboy..u never proposal u never know what my answer .so please don judge on this post ya!hehe..
they are young and when they were small,their parent already chose for them husband.in their concept,a girl who need get married and give birth baby only consider as a perfect girl.love in free can be totally forfeited in their tradition.they are married according to what parent [think] good for them.
always there is Grey area in love just like in business ethic,we cant manage get the perfect match which fulfill every parties demand.if the girl is so unlucky,she might meet with a bad husband who are greedy asking money from the wife,if she couldn't pay the money,they will just burn the wife!
isnt that a guy should take the responsibility to take good care of his wife?
the more worst,if the husband die,the children can get their mum away from the house,because the mother would consider as ominous object!even the society will look down to these all widows.is that a fair trade?is that what a female should get?what is the final destination for a female?marriage??
from another point of view,giving the chance to choose own lover to be the whole life partner,are u sure will be a very good situation compare to the India?i don think so,because we all have options and qualifications!under terms and condition,we are allowed to make choice so do others.
as time goes by,marriage just a legal status provide to the baby,if planning to give birth,should married;but if not,married or not doesn't a matter,it just a cert which the parties have been addressed by the law in any way.
p/s:babyboy will be worry right when read me this blog,but babyboy..u never proposal u never know what my answer .so please don judge on this post ya!hehe..
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