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seems like i always telling story bout my frenz,my life
but seldom i do talk bout my parents my family...
ok..before start my story telling..let intro the member..

my dad side
have 4 brothers,2 older sisters,and a youngest bother!
so,i have 9 cousin sister, and 6 cousin brother
mum side
1 brother and 1 older sister
i have 3 cousin brother and 2 cousin sister

so i am the youngest~~
some of them even married and have 3 children!
and almost the age of mine~~~
too bad,can blame that is my dad late married!haha~~~
well,my family quite traditional but modern as well~~
we are seldom following the traditional laws,but in educations,they are!
it seems like so~~~cacat!haha~~

back to the topic,i m closer with my mum side de cousin..but oli the cousin brother
coz we grow up together ma!haha~~
so i love them much,i believe that they are too~~
in giving advices and study or others problem
i will willing to share with them

at my dad side i am a quiet gal
just i am not close with them
i guess age is the gap between us~~haha
but i am proud to be their cousin as well
coz they all are professional and success in their career!

yea,it left me and another same age cousin brother studying,
but i am better than him in study..by the way we both are having pressure in study
just doing our best brother,ok?!gambate nia~!

let talk bout my parents~~
my mum
a woman just simple and western style
she has her own way
just not trying to against her rules
i can guarantee your ear will be safe forever!
haha~~
but she is a loving mum
sometimes she is overprotect me
by the way this is a human being
and the natural mother attitude
so i learn to be more tolerate to her~~
she is a hardworking woman,
just doing her best to give me the best~this is what she wan
but also wishing i could get the best result in study as well
in cooking,
i could satisfice la~~
but i am more picky in eat~
so,as i don like,
you never wish to see the foods on the table~~

my dad..
he is a funny man
love to make me smile and trying make me not to be boring in home
he encourage me to hang out or online~~
just he is busy in work
so frenz and on9 is the best fren of me
he is always trying to the best to me
but he is quite stubborn!
so,please forget it~
i know you are trying your best~
i even called him days ago just because i lost my baby..
asked him quickly come back find my baby...
even i know i might disturbing his work~
he always wanted to eat with me
the dinner
but i always not doing so
sleep or play compuetr..busy my stuff
sorry dad~~~

*so now,i am going to grab my dinner~~just i wan accom my dad to have the meal which he could spend time sit with me~


appreciate the family and where you are~just we are growing older and they are getting older!

time wait for no man!!



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